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Podcast’s If you are even considering Kink please do some research. The easiest  place to start is with a podcast. It will give you a little feel for what is to come. It shows that kink is truly for everybody. These are normal-ish people that except everyone no matter what their specific kinks are.   http://www.pervertedpodcast.com/ https://kinkypod.com/topic/english-bdsm-podcasts/ https://podcast.mollysdailykiss.com/   Top Websites These are “Mega” sites. So much information for newbies and oldies that didn’t know. Tons of people with similar interests. Want a intense crash course on Kink? Regardless of the answer, don’t forget to keep theses saved!    www.collarspace.com/ https://fetlife.com/ https://thecage.co/main.php
Don't be a Dummy Thought the title was funny. Extensive glossary and nice getting-started articles. I appreciated the advice giving to budding submissives and warnings signs of a ABUSER. Safety is #1   ---https://bdsmfordummies.wordpress.com---   Muches Munches are local meet-ups within the community. These are very useful for people that don’t believe there are others interested. They are held at !public! restaurants or community centers. There are no crazy outfits, no propositions and no reason to give your real name. Kinks are closer than you think.  *Fetlife is also an legit and awesome munch finder*
  http://findamunch.com/ http://redvioletmunch.proboards.com/
ALL MIGHTY TUMBLR If your looking for free raunchy porn without the viruses and invaluable information…. It’s right here!!! Make a free profile and repost all you want . Search internet browser for your kink with tumblr in the title.  This was where my BDSM adventure began and it will always be in my back pocket. Super secret, super kinky and many internet blogs also have a tumblr version.   https://4loveofkink.tumblr.com/ The Book Love this book! Although it is very thick (haha) with lots of statistics, anthropology and neurology. It explains what happens in our head and how our brain is built to process it. Great read! Understand the different ways of thinking between girls and guys.  If anything else then cliff notes it and get the gist. It might persuade you to read it!   http://www.billionwickedthoughts.com/
  Dating websites If you wanna find a date then apps have taken over. Many are by location or question and answer based then a computer matches.  Do you wanna be kinky? will most likely not be asked. A lot of online kink matching costs. Apps are dangerous and a long rough time finding a match but at they will be close. I would just put “I’m kinda kinky” somewhere on your profile. Safety is KEY…. I can’t express that enough. Crazy people will use “kink” as an excuse to be sociopaths.  Be patient, be smart and have fun.   https://alt.com/ https://www.pof.com/ https://tinder.com/   Safety, Safety !Safety!   http://www.kinkabuse.com/ http://www.kinkacademy.com/ http://www.kinkweekly.com/ http://www.kinktalk.com/
  Message boards   So many experiences in such a little space. If your really wanna do research and find almost exactly what you need. Ha. It could take a while but it will definitely be worth it. Whether you wanna come up the kink closet or just curious. Message boards are vital for your expression of kink. Probably worth mentioning that if you think you can bring something new to kink, think again. It’s all been done and perfected for years  Sry.    http://kinksfanclub.proboards.com/ https://bdsmboard.org/ https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/ http://bdsminternational.org/ https://bdsmpassions.com/ http://www.collarchat.com/


  Blogs Always a great idea. Make one yourself or keep a journal about your experiences. This will help to keep your mind in order so things don’t get out of hand without knowing it. People can make some top notch blogs about their D/s relationships.   Keep in mind these are usually one couple and kink is whatever you want it to be, with consent. I’ll most likely never care for masks or wearing black leather. Limits/preferences need to be established before and must be honored to build trust. Baby steps my fellow kinksters. No use rushing, just sit back and enjoy the ride.   http://www.eroticawakening.com/ https://masocast.com/ http://www.seekers.org.uk/ https://ourchangingviews.wordpress.com/ http://bannon.com/   Dominate Blogs: http://souldominant.blogspot.com/ https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/ http://dominantguide.com/ http://gentle-dominant.com/ http://mistressladyleyla.blogspot.com   Submissive Blogs: http://soulsubmissive.blogspot.com/ http://voluntarysubmissiontoanother.tumblr.com/ http://bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/ http://dennisnajee.blogspot.com/ *https://www.dominadynasty.com/*

Trevor

Trevor

 

About Me

Hello my name is Trevor and love the behavioral sciences, more importantly psychology. Biology, anthropology, sociology or anything that can help me make sense of why we think or do the things we do. Where do personalities come from? How do I control my own or make sense of it? Would everyone be better off if we could just understand ourselves. At the top of the list is sex, at least for me. What makes it tick? How does it relate to personalities or quality of life? Is it better to know or not to know? It is truly amazing how much of the brain the human race has not figured out yet. I have many questions without real answer. I know that psy will always be my #1 love but now I want to have sex with it hahaha. I’m a new inspiring Dom and want to express myself using my dark side. I’d like to paint an unusual but familiar picture with the brush stroke my cock. Whilst in college studying PSY, I had my first seizure and was diagnosed with epilepsy. I imagine from poor eating habits and ridiculous amounts of stress. A year later my daughter was born and I dropped out. I worried about stuff I have very little control over, like the people I want to help but can’t. Caring drives me crazy because just a few words of wisdom could likely keep someone from a lifetime worth of pain. I’m now single father with a very large tight knit family. I still tend to care a little too much in my daily life and usually put loved ones before myself. I believe that creation is beautiful and destruction is necessary. I think about life as Yin and Yang. At our core we are both equally good and evil, right and wrong but always a silver lining or something to lose.  Balance is key! I take care of myself so that I can be there when someone is in need. Otherwise we are both screwed. Linier Spectrums seems to be the way my mind works . No one is all gay or only straight, all man or girl, Completely dominate or only submissive. We all lie on linier spectrums. Some lie farther than the others but without one you can not have the other. Night/day, love/hate and life/death. I’d advise to play devil’s advocate with everything in life and not to be ignorant from the truth of duality.  

Trevor

Trevor

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